Ask George Clooney or Barack Obama and even they’ll tell you wooing a lady is one of the hardest things on earth. It’s science from another planet that men simply do not seem to get. At least most men. My high-school friend Sam is a perfect gentleman. He also happens to be astonishingly handsome and played quarterback in college before becoming a doctor. He’s got everything going for him. However, it took Sam 3 years of chasing, smiling, smooth-talking, buying countless lattes, carrying shopping bags before he managed his first proper date with his current wife.

And what makes it all the more baffling is that she is plain, simple, with average good looks - and not the Kardash-type you’d imagine. So I decided to ask his wife Katie what took so long for her to finally cave in. So she brought me a cold one and explained. Gents, you’ll thank me for this sooner or later because I’ll share the secrets that work.

Saved The Boxed Roses For Later. Your First Step

Let’s remind you, we’re talking about wooing a girl you really want. We’re not talking about getting lucky on a Friday night. So, here’s the numero uno tip.

Women can see beyond men, face it swallow it and move on. When a woman is out with a man, she needs to be able to trust him. And that flies out of the window for most men when they try too hard. So here’s the MOST IMPORTANT thing: Be Yourself. Be Genuine. Stop trying too hard. Show her that you’re trying to impress her, let her understand. Let her know that you’re not sure if you’re cutting it right or too thin.

Your image, ego, and persona are all good to get you rolling. But if you’re serious about your girl, let go of the ego and image. They’re fragile and women don’t like fragile. They’re looking for an honest, dependable man. Getting down on our knees comes from this philosophy - showing a woman you’ve let it all go for her.
So rule number 1. Let go of that bloated ego and be your genuine self.

Boxed Roses: Seduction Technique Of The Ages

This is a seduction technique that women love when done right. Women admit it’s hard to resist. It excites them, to say the least. But … only when it’s executed well. You can’t pick up a bouquet of cut roses wrapped in cheap plastic from your local grocery and expect to seduce anyone.

Ambiance, presentation, and timing are all key. The lusty Romans had perfected the art of seducing women using roses. Create the ambiance first. It could be a cozy restaurant corner or your living room with candles and music. Again don’t try too hard and make it look like Mathew McConaughey turning it on with Kate Hudson in How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days. Casually have a few aromatic candles around your sitting area. She’ll notice you trying to impress her. Now bring her to ease, mellow things down with things you usually talk about … make her laugh. All this by being yourself. If you’re nervous, show you’re nervous. Pop open the wine and ease her more into the time with you.

Now, strike! Take out the most spectacular arrangement of boxed roses that she’s ever seen. Tell her they’re timeless, never to age, and that they reminded you of her beauty. Watch her melt. At this point, she’s curling her toes and is overwhelmingly seduced. Most women admit they’ll kiss the guy at this point. Feel free to gently touch her hair and tell her she’s beautiful. Watch what happens next :)

Gentlemen I wish you all the best. If you still haven’t ordered the dreamiest boxed roses for her, you can get ‘em here. They usually get delivered within a day or two. Bonne chance!