While trying hard to please may be flattering at times, it’s the spontaneous little romantic gestures that’ll get you in the sack more often. An out-of-the-blue cute phone call to “hear your voice” might sound be a bit sappy but it can do wonders if you manage to time it right. Timing is everything when it comes to small acts of affection. Understand your partner’s mood, energy level, and vibe before you go all out with red roses in a box and a bottle of Chablis. Don’t call them at work to say ‘I miss you” (which is cheesy-cute) if you know it’s a stress pad for her. Instead, send her a text if you’re all soaked and mushy in love. Here are some more tips to follow if you wanna get it right.

Fit The Occasion - Most women don’t appreciate a flash mob on an anniversary or Valentine’s Day or another special occasion. Understand your partner and the significance of the event.

Zero Pressure - You absolutely cannot do something which might put her under pressure, like getting a puppy, or moving in together, and expect her to be thrilled. Do it only if you’re certain that’s what she wants.

Pick Up Queues - You might feel like hitting it out of the park but your girlfriend might be singing blues inside. Pick up the queues. If she’s in the mood for a quiet evening, then save the rose box for a better time.

Deflate Your Ego - Show her she comes first, and mean it. This is where most of us falter and screw up. Listen to her opinion with non--judgment and compassion, even when you’re convinced she’s wrong.

3 Toe-Curling Gestures That Never Fail

Okay, let’s dive into the fun part. Let’s see how you can bewitch your girlfriend into your arms. Remember to keep these moments cozy and personal. They can be mushy, traditional, cheesy … they’re all good as long as you deliver it at the right moment.

Kitchen Love: Jump into the kitchen and do the chores she HATES!!! Get the dishes done, scrub the kitchen, vacuum it and leave it as she does. Surprise her with a sparkling clean kitchen when she gets back. This one is a ubiquitous all-time winner.

Everlasting Roses In A Box. Will Even Get Your Ex Back: This one will get your ex begging to come back. It’s that kind of gesture you should savor for a special MOMENT. These are timeless real roses that stand frozen in time - in perpetual beauty as if they had drunk the elixir of Forever Youth from the magical chalice.

These roses create an environment of magic. It’s really like living inside a romantic Hollywood classic. My personal favorite is the magical Rose In A Glass Dome with fairy lights. I know guys who got the big Yes with this (of course you need a ring too). Some prefer the timeless roses in a box arranged beautifully, that almost mirrors the flower arrangements of the big day.

Arrange A Spa Day: Whether she’s been stressed lately or not, every girl loves a relaxing spa session. Learn her schedule and book her all-inclusive spa day - everything paid for. It’ll be great for her to unwind and relax those tensed muscles after a long week. It’s tempting to tag with her, but I suggest you pair her up with a girlfriend. I promise you’ll reap some close, intimate rewards.

BONUS TIP:
Drop The Messaging And Call: Once in a while, pick up the phone and call instead of texting. Do this when you’re feeling happy, confident, and all loved up. Never, when feeling low. Call her happy and say you just wanted to say Hi to hear her voice. That’s all. Check out her reaction.